![]() But true love can never blossom in captivity. ![]() ![]() Are you sure the fault is not yours as well? The reason that love usually brings with it so much pain is that lovers unknowingly force each other into the golden cage of their own expectations. So understand what I am saying and don’t make the mistake of generalizing: every time I give freedom in my relationships, I get used. ![]() Honestly, you never expected that she would ever use that freedom to do her own thing, or to be with someone else, did you? But when she actually uses that freedom, you end up feeling exploited. It is difficult to imagine that your beloved may need space and time away from you, isn’t it? You try to do the right thing - by ‘giving freedom’ to your lover. It is natural to want to possess your beloved - that is the play of the ego. To say that you are giving a certain amount of freedom to the other (whatever you consider necessary!) itself shows that you are holding back something in your giving. In the first place, isn’t your idea of ‘giving freedom’ to your beloved a very wrong one? Love itself implies giving the other total freedom, unconditional freedom. Why do love and pain always go hand in hand? I try to give a lot of freedom to my partner in my relationships, but just end up getting used.
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